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Tags: health, wellness, mens health, marriage
 Who wouldn’t cringe at the thought of marriage. Of waking up over and over with the same person every morning. Sharing the same room with them, the same household, the same personal space. And this is not to say merely on the physical sense. Emotionally, mentally and psychologically, you have to get used to the idea that you are with “somebody”.
When there is you, there has to be him, or her and you’re basically considered a unit in itself. If a man or a woman has gotten used to the freedom and independence of singleness, marriage can come off to be such an enclosed place. Women are more apt to think of themselves as cinderellas swooning at the thought of their prince charmings.
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And as if their boyfriends are their knights in shining armour off to their rescue. And thus when he pops the question to and offers her a ring, she pictures both of them on the path to marital bliss. But men and women are often of different polarities. The marital bliss which a woman so fancies may seem to be a dreadful state of confinement for a man.
A woman can be left in a quandary. Does her boyfriend think of the conglomeration of him and her and for the long term at that? How can she tell if he is considering the actual “M” word with her? How is it to tell whether he is marriage material? A telltale sign is when a man has introduced his so called girlfriend to his family.
Men are often tentative on letting a woman meet his family and siblings. If he does bring in the idea of a particular woman to his family, then it’s a good sign. More so if he hasn’t done it before with his previous girlfriends. If a man leaves some of his things at his girlfriend’s place, or when he allows vice versa, there are better probabilities for a more stable relationship.
It is somewhat of a symbol of his and her worlds meshing. Otherwise, a man would be adamant about keeping his space strictly his space. And then there is of course him foreseeing or envisioning a future with her. The thought of moving into the suburbs in a cozy “home”.
The idea of having children with her is becoming viable. An unavailable man would be appalled at the sight of “kids”. More so with the thought of having them. But when he fancies the woman he is with, he could contemplate on establishing a long-term partnership with her. As a spouse, that is.
And eventually moving on to the next level of growth with her. Marriage is often romanticized as a man and woman so enamored of each other. When they have stated their marital vows, it is as if they’ll be off to a dreamland where their so called “love” will weather everything.
When a man or woman seem hesitant of venturing into it, we see them as rather juvenile. But hesitation is a form of caution. Where pro’s are con’s are weighed and many things are anticipated. It is because one realizes that marriage is a crucial responsibility. A man could be hesitant of getting married in this sense.
Rather than a woman pressuring him to be bound to her, she should instead present herself as a capable person. For her to strive in herself to be capable rather than being needy. When a man sees that she is able and capable, then would he think of her as an ideal partner in the tumultuous commitment called marriage.
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About the author
The author of this article Rose Windale is a Health and Wellness Coach who has been successful with several natural health programs for many years. Rose recently published a step-by-step guide on how to lose weight the EASY way and become totally healthy and happy. More info on her life-changing eating habits plan HERE.
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