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Tags: health, wellness, womens health, natural women
 Natural is what it is- what you see is what you get. In the dating arena, women like to put on facades. They want to appear as beautiful as they can to the point of smothering themselves with make-up. “Sexy” for them is to bare too much of their skin.
To give off an air of confidence, they might feign it. To some extent, these whims might garner attention. For women who are out to have “fun” and are not taking dating seriously, that is. But for women who prefer to be given genuine attention, they might as well exude the same- an aura of genuineness, of being natural.
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There are men who find “dolled up” women attractive. But for a man to grow really fond of a woman, she would much rather put her guard down. To show herself for what it really is, to be natural. For women who want to take the dating game seriously, the idea of being natural may be the vital factor.
In the normal, natural scheme of things, women want a lifelong companion. To be able to find one, required is a serious relationship with a potential partner. In a serious relationship, a man will be seeing a woman everyday. Be it at her best, or during “bad hair days”. Or when she is ill, unkempt and might even look her worst.
Before a woman steps in the mirror, her partner sees her. To prevent these scenarios from getting complicated, a woman might as well do away with the facade. For most of the cases, men are inclined to grow fond of natural women. Men are especially atttacted to women who are comfortable and confident with being natural.
Even when it comes to making up and enhancing beauty, the natural “feel” seems more appealing. A woman should look her best, but she should not be ashamed if a man catches her off guard. A man can find it charming to see her with a towel on her head, for instance.
The point is for her to be comfortble and confident regardless of whether she is at her best or at her worst. When a man and a woman are at ease in such settings, the relationship can be promising. In the morning when waking up, a man can think it alluring to see a woman in her freshness.
This is the man a woman wants to be affectionate of her, one who will consider her a lifelong partner. There is no need for her to impress him with airs or sparkles. He is attracted to her for being “her”, not for what she puts on. This is not to say that a woman no longer keeps up with herself.
By all means, she has to keep herself well-kept and beautiful. This remains to be the basic principle. But by being beautiful, she has to keep herself natural most of the time. How a woman looks is one matter, how she carries herself is another. There are attractive women, but they may no longer be so if they are loud and needy.
Beauty is not the only aspect men look for. More than anything, they find a womans personality charming. A woman who can smile through pain can be endearing. When she has no qualms telling a man that she is hurting, or that she is uncertain. Women who are refined and confident and are natural and genuine about it are those which men often find captivating.
Putting on a show to attract is rather blatant and unattractive. But natural women who respect themselves garner the same from others. This is what men look for in a partner. Natural women who are self-assured and capable of handling themselves, their relationship and other matters of significance.
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Dr. Rose Windale is a successful Health & Wellness Coach who has been advising and coaching individuals for many years. Rose now decided to share her knowledge through this site, Healthzine.org. You can sign up for her free weekly newsletter and learn how to become truly healthy and happy.
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